It's a question that I want to know the answer to. So let me define extreme: Church(or your religion's house of worship) at least once a week, pray for everything, think you've sinned when you find someone attractive, and celibacy.
Well the question is pretty straightforward. This question was brought about by watching a documentary which I was shown these places called Hell Houses. Basically a tool to make kids fear the liberal side of things(abortions, homosexuality, sex in general). It's all acted out by actors and is truly monstrous to watch. Here is a link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3JycUFk9Ts it starts at 18:55. Be warned, it is VERY disturbing, and I'm 24 years old, they show this to kids half my age.
I am personally glad that I do not fear hell, because I have realized, there is NO proof of it's existence. I live my life as if there is no God, and I am quite content really.