I started getting to know a girl in December, possibly the most amazing person I know. She's funny, kind, really quirky, gorgeous (in my opinion) and we get on really well. I know I've only really been friends with her for a couple of months, but in that time we've become very close, and I'd actually class her as one of my three best friends.
Trouble is, I have feelings for her. She found out that I had a crush on her during December, and felt bad because she thought she had led me on by accident on New Year's Eve - but I convinced her that I no longer felt that way, and since then we've just become even better friends. Unfortunately, I think I may be now in love with her.
Don't go on about how 'you can't love someone after 2 months' or 'it's just lust' and things like that. I know how I feel - it's definitely not lust, I don't think there has been a single waking hour since I realised how much I like her that she hasn't crossed my mind at least once. Just trust that I have very strong feelings for her.
She has only been in two relationships before, and they were both with guys she didn't know very well. They also both ended badly after a month. She seems to go through phases where she believes that a relationship with a close friend would be amazing, and then also phases where she finds the concept really weird. I'm not even going to try to understand her, she's far too complex, and doesn't fit the stereotypes that many girls do.
Do you think she could change her mind for the better? She agreed that relationships with friends last the longest, and are the best. Is this a good sign? I definitely don't think she likes me at the minute, but I don't think she likes anyone at the minute. Do you think I've been friendzoned? And do you think that relationships between good friends can work?
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